Talk to Psychologist on Sexual Needs
Asking for Sister Female 28 , karachi
hi, how to reduce sexual urges, and when parents dont get you married. i really want to have sex, and enjoy my life, but i suppress myself so much. please let me how to reduce my sexual urges or fulfill them other than sinful sex which i had once with a male, but he is no longer in my life, and i miss him and those sexual feeling need suggestions please
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Rabia Tanveer - Psychologist
Msc (Psychology), Diploma (Clinical Psychology), B.T.T.C (Behavioral Therapy Training Course), ADCP, Training of Addiction Professionals of Pakistan, DHMS (in process) | Gujranwala
Aoa dear..you can book an appointment through marham.. tc
Daniyal Riaz - Psychologist
Mphil (Clinical Psychology), Lisenced Hypnotherapist (USA) | Karachi
93 Positive Reviews
Dear concerned client, sexual desire is one of the 3 basic needs of a human body. you need to have psychological assessment first to look for your strengths which will help you to manage your desires. there are some medicine as well but due to certain reasons they are not recommended. you can contact me through Marham.pk if you want further information or management techniques of your sexual deaires.
Mphil (Clinical Psychology), Lisenced Hypnotherapist (USA) | Karachi | Book Appointment
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3 basic needs of a human body are:
1) Food
2)Sleep
3) Sex
if any of these three needs get unfulfilled then the person may get mentally & emotionally unwell.
1 month ago
Mphil (Clinical Psychology), Lisenced Hypnotherapist (USA) | Karachi | Book Appointment
93 Positive Reviews
your welcome. if you want further help than feel free to consult through Marham.pk.
1 month ago
Mphil (Clinical Psychology), Lisenced Hypnotherapist (USA) | Karachi | Book Appointment
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session time varies from 30 mins to 60 mins per session.
1 month ago
it's a natural phenomena, but u can take counseling session to manage it from any qualified clinical psychologist.
may Allah bless you
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Javeria Khalid Bajwa - Psychologist
MS Clinical Psychology, MSc Developmental Psychology | Wah Cantt
1 Positive Reviews
Having sexual desire is natural thing, there's nothing to worry about it at all, but if those feelings or desires start troubling your daily life, you can try to manage those feelings/thoughts/urges, but one can't just push them away. The more you try to suppress them, the more powerfully they'll come back. so i suggest you to consult a psychologist for proper management of your concerns instead of suppressing your needs.
book an appointment through marham for online consultation.
Sumara Riaz - Psychologist
BSC Psychology, Masters in Applied Psychology, Post Graduate Certification in Addictions and Mental Health | Lahore
It’s natural to have sexual urges but if they are affecting your daily life then you need to manage them. Please contact a good psychologist. You can get online counseling through this forum. God bless you.
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thanks miss for your detailed reply.
As psychologist daniyal riaz mentioned that there are three basic needs of body i.e Food, Sleep & Sex/Love/Romance. I think the last need is pretty much ignored & there are several hurdles are made in the way of to it getting fulfilled in healthy, lawful, moral/ethical & in accordance with of any of the Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christianity & Isam).
Basic first & foremost purpose of marriage was, is & will be to fulfill sexual desires, which now has been restricted to what is called in west i.e Settle Down. They get marry only when they want to start family i.e getting kids.
This idea is kind of stuck is in parents & women heads too. They think only purpose of marriage is to start family & have kids. Having kids is secondary purpose. There is millions of childless couples, do they get separated/divorced, they don't have sexual intercourse or their sexual needs are vanished?
Some says, our boy/girl is studying, who is stopping from studying. There is a couple who has been married for twenty-five years & have two kids, does it means they only get intimated twice in twenty-five years of marriage. If they can adopt measures not to have kids after two, why can't young couple adopt such measures until their studies are completed or one get job etc.... which would be maximum four to five years. If one marries after puberty. At least in this way their desires are fulfilled in legal/sharai way.
Family of young groom can make arrangements of one new member in the family, they only need to get them separate room. There is no need of dowry/Jahaiz. Both the families can provide them what is needed for the room. There will be no extra expenses since they aren't having kids for three-five years. They can continue studies as regular, Only one change has happened that is the young woman has moved from her parents to her husband home, rest is normal. Her parents are paying college fee as if she have been in her parents home. Someone said that if we do early marriage of girls their husbands aren't in a position to pay her college/university fee, does marrying means her parents has totally abandoned her? Why can't they pay as usual? There didn't give her dowry.
Parents needs to consider it, as we are seeing 30years to even 40years old never-married women & men in our society.
Hope you get the gist of it.
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Absolutely right. Parents should think about it. future of their kids are not only linked with their studies or white collar jobs only. getting them married in proper age is also their responsibility.
1 month ago
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thanks for your comment. Men/women mental health very much linked with sexual urges like food & sleep. Like sleep & food when these are not fulfilled, a person feel irritated, disturbed until he/she get them fulfilled, same is the case with sex. It is especially true for those who are modest, religious & wants to remain pious.
1 month ago
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Agreed. May God help you and all of us. I hope you may get better and quick solution for all of your issues. This is indeed a very good forum
1 month ago
Shoaib Ahmad - Psychologist
M.Sc (Psychology), P.M.D.C (Clinical Psychology), Dip Psychology | Karachi
9 Positive Reviews
Dear Client, the sexual need is the basic need of an individual it should be fulfilled timely but some time in our society parents cant arrange marriages of their kids timely.so express your thoughts to your parents for the marriage .one thing you also mentioned that you had a sexual experience with one male in past, for such behavior you should contact to a psychologist so booked your session via Marham
Dr. Nazish Idrees - Psychologist
PhD Scholar in Clinical Psychology, MS (Clinical Psychology), Msc (HDFS), B.sc Dietetics,Diploma in Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Diploma in Diet and Nutritional Advisor with distinction, Diploma in Family and Relationship Therapist | Lahore
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